Signs of dating a controlling person
Your abuser may be angry or upset if you are 'late' coming back from work, shopping, visiting friends, etc., even if you told him/her you would be later back than usual.
Your abuser may question you closely about where you were, whom you spoke to, the content of every conversation you held, or why you did something he/she was not involved in.
Controlling behaviour is often disguised or excused as concern.
As the jealousy progresses, he/she may call you frequently during the day or drop by unexpectedly.
He may be unhappy about or refuse to let you work for fear you'll meet someone else, check the car mileage or ask friends to keep an eye on you.
Jealousy is not proof of love, it is a sign of insecurity and possessiveness.
The good news is, that it is possible to predict the likelihood of the person you are currently with or are about to become involved with being a domestic abusiver It is simply a matter of having the knowledge of the warning signs to look out for and being sufficiently aware to notice them (which includes not being to blinded by love, lust or desperation! Below are a list of behaviours, traits and beliefs which are common in abusive personalities.
These are commonly known as Warning Signs of abusive personalities .