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Depending on who you interact with online, your Tamagotchi hatches into one of nine monsters aligning with types within Japanese gay culture: chubby piggy, say, or bulky bison. As 9monsters alone proves, dating apps have radically transformed the way we approach love and sex.
And while hundreds of hand-wringing articles have been written about the death of the relationship and the dating apocalypse they have created, it is more realistic to admit they are a simple way of helping us get what we crave.
In order to combat the idea that it’s a place to go for casual sex, the founders have widened its reach to allow users to locate new friends in the area (much like Bumble has done with Bumble BFF), play online games together or join user-generated groups.
This has proved popular in a culture where people are generally more reserved about approaching someone, even on dating apps, than they are in other parts of the world.
This first post is the most common of the three (possibly four) viewpoints we'll be covering, with the other two being "What It's Like Dating A Non-Japanese Person (Japanese Perspective)" and "What It's Like To Date A Japanese Guy (Female non-Japanese perspective)." Since the most common question I get in my email is usually a poorly written grammatical catastrophe that tends to be along the lines of "How I get Japanese gurls fast? ) after the forty-sixth Japanese girl you've asked, one of them has sighed and then followed that *sigh* up with an "okay, fine. But then you realize, just as you're about to knock on her door ten minutes early (boo boo) that you have no idea what you can expect! Keep in mind that a lot of statements are generalizations.
" I thought it was only appropriate to start with the topic of men dating Japanese women, as I rarely get the opposite "How I get Japanese boyz fast? Now, in this post I won't actually be telling you "how get Japanese gurls fast" (that secret disappeared with the Jomon, long ago), but I will be going over to date a Japanese girl, in general, based on around fifty people who responded to a survey I put out a couple months ago. All people are individuals that do their own things, so use the following information with caution.
“Our approach had to be about thinking local, and Paktor started differentiating itself by tapping into our own knowledge of local culture and people.”And he is not alone—throughout Asia, app innovators have been coming up with creative solutions to traditional cultural barriers.
Paktor has quickly grown to become one of the biggest dating apps in Asia, and now has 15 million users in Taiwan, Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, Vietnam and Thailand.
“It’s difficult because there’s no flirting culture. We wouldn’t strike up a conversation with a stranger.” Tantan provides the solution to this, boasting over 3 billion matches to date from 100 million users.
Another Chinese app, Momo, has got more of a hook-up reputation and is particularly popular with ex-pats living in China (make of that what you will).
If you’re single and under 40 you've probably tried an app at some point, and whether your ultimate goal is marriage and babies, someone to keep your sheets warm for the next few hours or a gay Tamagotchi—dating apps are becoming the best way to get you there.
Over the next two weeks we'll be writing a small series of posts about non-Japanese people dating Japanese people from multiple perspectives. Later that night you shine your "Dispel The Foreigners" kanji tattoo, put on your fanciest cosplay outfit, and get ready for your first date with a Japanese girl.