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” It irks me in ways that can only be compared to fingernails scraping against grade-school chalkboards. Let’s think about this concept for a moment so I can emphasize the utter folly of this idea. When you go to the movies you literally have nothing to do but sit quietly and watch the movie. You have a stupid cup-holding barricade in between you two.
You try desperately and unsuccessfully to come up with funny comments relating to the movie.
Now, don’t get me wrong, nice guys can often finish first with women (as my friend Kevin Alexander will tell you) but trying to be too nice, or trying to be someone you’re not, never works!
Guys who try to play into the nice-guy role are guys who just don’t have the confidence to be true to who they really are. They don’t have to “try” to be nice, they just are.
A high-quality woman, however, will not put up with this trivial behavior.I’ve known guys who were adamant about not paying for a drink or a meal or a ticket, and they were looked at by the women they took out as petty.It’s one thing if a woman is obviously trying to have you buy everything or get her things; it’s another thing entirely to offer to get the first round of drinks on a first date.When someone is their best self, they are all they can be and nothing more. Somewhere along the line paying for a woman when a man took her out on a date became shunned upon by the men’s self-help community.They’ve worked at mastering their weaknesses and harnessing their strengths and they’ve overcome whatever challenges they’ve faced in life. Perhaps it was a necessity in the empowerment of man, and something that self-improvement-seeking men, especially in dating, needed to hear.