Conversation starters when dating
Don’t call someone cutie, sweetie, babe, honey, etc. The few people who might be okay with this are vastly outnumbered by the number of people who don’t like it. Even if someone states in their bio that they aren’t looking for anything serious, or that they are interested in kink, or anything of that nature, they still deserve some respect and to be treated like a human.There is no need to get sexual within the first few messages.
But, I date men, so my experience is only with men; however, I think a lot of what I am saying can be applied to any gender.I have no issue with messaging first, even on non-Bumble apps, and I don’t even mind leading the conversation to an extent.I feel like if you want something (or someone) go for it — life is short, and we spend too much time overthinking our interactions on apps.Be happy you got a unique opener and try to send them something unique in response, or at least ask them something about their profile.I stole this screenshot from a friend: I get that confidence can be attractive.